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Hello.
My son is now 26 months old and the last 20 months has been a whirlwind. At 6 months old, we had our first brain MRI which resulted in a normal scan. We went to have a brain scan because my son was experiencing a significant delay in his motor development. He's seen two pediatric neurologists, an opthalmalogist, an endocrinologist, a geneticist, an ENT, a speech pathologist and a pediatric development specialist in the last year and a half (about 20 appointments total). So far, all the tests that have been run have come back normal (EEG, two brain MRIs, numerous genetic testing, chromosomal analysis, urinalysis, and countless other tests) and we are without a diagnosis. His condition is referred to in his medical chart as having "hypotonia" and also some of his doctors refer to his microcephaly. One of his neurologist mentioned that his condition mimicked hypotonic cerebral palsy but did not want to diagnosis him as that.
His head measurement is below normal and not even on the growth chart. It's measuring about 17 3/4 inches right now. Again, he's two years old and only able to crawl (bunny hop) and sit on his own. He's been seeing a physical therapist since he was 9 months old. It's been able to catch him up to about a 9 month development level. He is just now pulling to stand occasionally. He's only able to stand assisted momentarily (30 seconds).
Each doctor has been unable to provide us a diagnosis of his condition.
Any other parents out there in the same boat???
Thanks,
Melissa
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Permalink Reply by Sofie on January 24, 2011 at 7:16pm Hi Melissa , I read your post and my son too has been diagnosed with microcephaly . He is 18 months old. Our next step will be genetic testing to rule out any abnormalities with chromosomes. His neurologist referred him to an orthopaedic because noticed that he tip toes with his right foot, and the othopaedic said that he has high muscle tone and eventually will need a brace.My son does not quite pick up objects with both hands he mainly used his right hand and has feeding problems , he does not eat pieces of food and everything has to be pureed , also he dos not self feed. He does not talk yet, but can crawl. pull up to a stand and cruise along the furniture, but has had bad coordination especially with his hands and balance . I understand what you are going thru , it is frustrating . It will be nice to share our experiences .
Permalink Reply by Melissa on February 11, 2011 at 11:01am Hi Sofie. It is nice to hear that other parents are going through similar experience. Not nice about the situation but nice to know other parents are going through the things we struggle with on a daily basis. Raising our son has been extremely rewarding and I'm beginning to see the purpose of it all. It's allowed me to appreciate every teeny tiny movement my son does and to be as patient as possible. He's on his own time table. We through the normal one out the window at 6 weeks old when he hadn't even smiled yet because his mouth muscles were so under toned. We too have done the braces and have been in them for about 8 or 9 months. They have helped tremendously so I think you will see a huge difference when your son gets fitted for those as well.
The feeding issue has been interesting to say the least. We also did pureed foods and soft foods up til about 24 months and then now with the help of speech therapy we are migrating into normal people food. It's also helped that he's been in OT for a few months too. That has helped with his fine motor skills.
The most frustrating is definitely the not being able to walk. He is officially two and a half now. He wants to so badly. He is unable to talk yet but he grunts really loudly when he gets frustrated not being able to be mobile all on his own. He crawls but is not able to cruise yet. I told my husband that when he accomplishes this, we are throwing a "walking" party in celebration. :)
Permalink Reply by LisaC on February 25, 2011 at 11:19pm My son walked at 20 months and, yeah, we didn't throw quite throw a party, but we emailed around that BIG FAT video file to everyone--this was almost 7 yrs ago, and broadband speeds weren't so great. =)
Here he is last year:
Therapy. And his own hard work and perseverance. BTW, he reads almost at grade level, too. =)
Don't ever give up on him. His will to succeed, with your support, will take him far.
Permalink Reply by Rachel Clair Hallam on February 2, 2011 at 3:18pm
Permalink Reply by Melissa on February 11, 2011 at 11:25am Hi Rachel.
It was so good to see another parent with a similar situation. Calan didn't sit up until he was 15 months and we thought he just hung the moon when he finally did it.! We were overjoyed because that opened the door to big boy baths in the bathtub and no more support cushion behind him when he was on the floor. So, your daughter can walk? Does she need the assistance of a walker or can she walk independently? What age did she walk? Between age 2 and 3? We are still not at the walking stage. He is able to crawl pretty fast now and can pull to stand but not often.
We have had two MRI's and they were both normal. I hate going through those. I hope we don't have any more in our future. I've never heard of heterotopic. Can you tell me what that means and what it's causing in relation to her neurological system? We have also had an EEG like you and the results came back slightly abnormal. There was a "single brief burst of suspicious hsarp and slow wave activity of potential epileptogienic significance." The neurologist and his genetisist did not think this was significant since he's not had a seizure to date.
Have you tried to have a follow-up EEG or did they recommend another alternative test for her? Also, what are absence seizures? Are they easily identified? Sometimes our son spaces off and isn't responsive right away but no weird movements. He's been monitored by a developmental specialist but he didn't see anything that we should be concerned with. All in all, I'm sick of doctors, I'm sick of testing...only to get all of them to come back normal with no answers as to why my son has such a significant global delay. I know I should be happy that they are coming back normal but that just brings so much added frustration not to have a reason for all of this.
Permalink Reply by Rachel Clair Hallam on February 21, 2011 at 11:05am
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Permalink Reply by Melissa on February 11, 2011 at 11:29am Carrie, thanks for the suggestion. I am going to bring this up with his geneticist which we see every 6 months. We go back in later this Spring so i am going to mention it to her. We have had a macroscopic chromosome analysis as well as a microscopic chromosome analysis performed so I'm not sure if that was the same test you mentioned above but I am going to ask. Thanks so much!
On a side note, how did you go through the blood draw? We've had two so far in my son's two and a half years and let's just say that it was a nightmare. This time we hope we get a nurse with LOTS of experience.
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Permalink Reply by Tannis Ross on April 13, 2011 at 12:51pm Hi Melissa, my name is Tannis.
Your story sounds somewhat familiar to me. The whirlwind part and the discovery that seems to take forever. My daughter has hypotonia as well, decreased core strength. She does have a chromosome anomally and because of it, has a learning disabiity. She is now 11.
I do remember in the first 2 years of her life, having so many specialist and doctors appointments and being so overwhelmed. I wish I actually wrote more of it down. I also remember before, during and after her diagnosis, meeting many doctors who very casually would guess as to what was wrong with her by throwing around conditions and words that meant nothing to me. Only later to go home and look it up on the computer and spend the rest of the evening crying and worrying.
Stay strong, take advantage of all and any resources available and ask lots of questions. Good luck, and glad to see you as part of Hopeful Parents.
Tannis
p.s. I also blog now about my life with my daughter, if you would like to read me, I am at www.momentsintimewithtannis.blogspot.com . Reading what others have to say has always helped me and given me a new perspective. Perhaps you will start your own blog to help yourself and others?
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